From fork-admin@xent.com Thu Sep 19 11:04:59 2002 Return-Path: Delivered-To: yyyy@localhost.spamassassin.taint.org Received: from localhost (jalapeno [127.0.0.1]) by jmason.org (Postfix) with ESMTP id EAD0116F03 for ; Thu, 19 Sep 2002 11:04:57 +0100 (IST) Received: from jalapeno [127.0.0.1] by localhost with IMAP (fetchmail-5.9.0) for jm@localhost (single-drop); Thu, 19 Sep 2002 11:04:57 +0100 (IST) Received: from xent.com ([64.161.22.236]) by dogma.slashnull.org (8.11.6/8.11.6) with ESMTP id g8IKQfC15006 for ; Wed, 18 Sep 2002 21:26:42 +0100 Received: from lair.xent.com (localhost [127.0.0.1]) by xent.com (Postfix) with ESMTP id C09BF2940B3; Wed, 18 Sep 2002 13:23:05 -0700 (PDT) Delivered-To: fork@spamassassin.taint.org Received: from crank.slack.net (slack.net [166.84.151.181]) by xent.com (Postfix) with ESMTP id 51BD329409E for ; Wed, 18 Sep 2002 13:22:05 -0700 (PDT) Received: by crank.slack.net (Postfix, from userid 596) id AB1203ECF5; Wed, 18 Sep 2002 16:29:40 -0400 (EDT) Received: from localhost (localhost [127.0.0.1]) by crank.slack.net (Postfix) with ESMTP id A94CF3ECE9; Wed, 18 Sep 2002 16:29:40 -0400 (EDT) From: Tom To: "R. A. Hettinga" Cc: fork@spamassassin.taint.org, Digital Bearer Settlement List Subject: Re: [VoID] a new low on the personals tip... In-Reply-To: Message-Id: MIME-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: TEXT/PLAIN; charset=US-ASCII Sender: fork-admin@xent.com Errors-To: fork-admin@xent.com X-Beenthere: fork@spamassassin.taint.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.0.11 Precedence: bulk List-Help: List-Post: List-Subscribe: , List-Id: Friends of Rohit Khare List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: Date: Wed, 18 Sep 2002 16:29:40 -0400 (EDT) On Wed, 18 Sep 2002, R. A. Hettinga wrote: --]I know it's not the popular choice for a lot of people, but I'd --]suggest, um, church. :-). Like Woody Allen said, 90% of life is --]showing up, right? --] I think another venue for finding people is the workplace. As a contractor I have had the opertunity to meet lots of eligables over the course of my wandering workhistory. My wife was my Task Order Manager years ago, thats how we met. Her joke is that she is still my Task Order Manager but now I dont get paid:)- By starting up your own companies or working in sterile thinklabs you are cutting yourself off from one heck of a fertile ground for linkages....the common office. I like the shurch idea as well. Other ideas... Book circles, geocaching groups, heck Rhorho your still young enough to hit the campus mixers...and I mean the social stuff not the techtech events. Above all, ask yourself whats important to you.. Life, you either life it or you waste it. -tom